I can’t quite remember where I read this , It was when I first started reading self-help books, finding Myself again after starting to get empty nest Syndrome and my son turned 16 . He didn’t need me anymore. – the quote was something like – you don’t have to start over – just start again, pick up where you let of. So I got myself together and started again to discover who I was with a teen sometimes wiser than me. I stared discovering how is was going to live life when he was independent and away at collage. I stared again.